Monthly Archives: July 2014

Talking about ‘Life of Hers’: 20-something, African and living with expectations.

So there is something really exciting on youtube at the moment. I have personally been waiting a loooong time for someone of my generation to write about the complexity and multi-dimension of 20 -something women and men of African origin. … Continue reading

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After lessons learned…

For the past week I have been posting my ‘lessons learned after 25’ thoughts. It has been refreshing and great to see the amazing feedback from you all. I believe that when lessons are truly learned, it brings about change. … Continue reading

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Things I am growing in since turning 25…part 6

Do you own yourself?  I was once young. I know what it is like to love while young, I want to advise you. I am aware that, in the end, you will do what you want. My advice is that … Continue reading

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Things I am growing in since turning 25…part 5

Connecting with my pain and understanding past hurts, helps drive my hustle I used to hate getting hurt – I still do…but less so. With every emotional and physical battle I find myself fighting I now know I am learning … Continue reading

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Things I am growing in after turning 25…part 4

Big sacrifices have been made for me to be where I am My parents brought me up to be aware of my personal history and history of Zambians before me. They also taught me to be mindful of how blessed … Continue reading

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Things I am growing in after turning 25…. part 3

Life is short – every second counts I remember when my parents used to tell me that as they got older and got married, had kids etc, a lot of their friends and parents of their friends died. It now … Continue reading

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Things I am growing in after turning 25…part 2

Where do insecurities come from? Every so often…well very often something happens to me and my reaction (or lack of), makes me think about how far I have come emotionally. I think out how temperamental I was as a teenager … Continue reading

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