About Nissi.

Hi thanks for dropping by!

I am a writer, singer/ songwriter who loves clothes, make up, hair, food, chocolate cookies and above all God. I am a married mum of 2 young sons, former Miss Souther Africa UK and author of 3 books about the journey to womanhood. I see myself as a bit of a know it all so started this blog to share all the stuff I know, my random ramblings and thoughts. Feel free to drop comments.

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Welcome.

Nissi x

152 Comments

  1. mrsbongle says:

    Love your attitude; you go girl!

  2. trixycae says:

    Ditto to what mrsbongle said

  3. devilz says:

    Hey nice one dear…:) looking forward to see ur posts..

  4. Thanks for checking out my blog!

  5. Thanks for taking the time to like our “Welcome” post. If you’re looking for chocolate cookies, we’ll be debuting those on our site within the next two weeks.

    Have a wonderful holiday if you’re celebrating today!

    1. Defo will do. It was a pleasure!

  6. Tilly Bud says:

    I love your header – you are gorgeous!

  7. isaiah43123 says:

    Nissi, thank you for stopping by My Hmmm Collection. I hope you come back again soon.

  8. Hi Nissi! Well no wonder you enjoyed my post today, you are quite a glamour girl yourself! Thanks for stopping by my blog and “liking” one of my posts. I appreciate it. Happy holidays. Off to explore more of your blog. Margie

  9. I forgot, thank you so much for visiting my blog this morning. I do appreciate it very much.

    1. no probs! You have a great blog!

  10. Thanks for liking my blog! I am now following your blog!

  11. JT says:

    Hey there, thanks for checking out my blog! I have a question, how many hours were spent getting your hair to do that 🙂 I have to say you can see the light of Jesus in that Pic!

    1. lol jus a couple hours! thanks 🙂

  12. caneable says:

    Thanks for checking out my blog and liking my post! I will follow yours too.

    1. My pleasure! You have a great blog!

  13. Cowboy says:

    Howdy Darlin –

    Thanks for stopping by my blog ! I’m glad you did, I have enjoyed a couple posts on your blog already and will be checking in more.

    Cowboy

  14. moss says:

    bargains, food, shoes and chocolate – not in that order!

  15. coolss says:

    hey thanks for the like, nice blog you have here..

  16. Thanks for visiting my blog and liking my post! Love your blog!

  17. Nissi, I so appreciated your “like” this morning. I am now looking forward to “following” you. (That wording still strikes me creepy.) Such juicy life here on these pages. Thank you for your observations and vulnerability. Gift.

    1. No orobs Ashley! I loved your post. Thanks for dropping by 🙂

  18. Thank you very much for the nice compliment! As do you. 😉

  19. JuliaRiceArt says:

    Hi Nissi! Good luck on your blog. I like your “favorites” too :). Thanks for stopping by my blog. Interested in doing an interview on your views on beauty?

    1. Hiya Julia, no probs! I would love to! Drop me an email on: nissimutale@yahoo.co.uk and we can sort that out 🙂

  20. Thanks for liking my blog. I am half Puerto Rican so I was intrigued by your blog name. I love tostones which are fried plantains. Good writing too. aloha

    1. Heya! Thanks for dropping by! I am sure our shared love of plantain will be the start of a beautiful relationship 🙂

  21. ashkitty says:

    Hey Nissi, Thanks for liking my post. You have a very nice blog your self…I like your writing…full of honest attitude, otherwise known as confidence. ist nice to know that there are people who still believe in God so much and love him truly and still arent fanatics of any kind. will keep dropping to check your blogs…until then…keep up the good work

  22. evieastrom says:

    I’ll join the line of people saying thanks for stopping by – and liking my blog 🙂 I’ll be droping by!

  23. speaklife1 says:

    Thanks for reading my blog “The Prosperity Gospel Is A Lie”. I look forward to reading your blogs and pray that you have much success. I too am a singer-songwriter you can check out my songs at http://www.reverbnation.com/artist/control_room/817355#!/ministerglenda.

    God Bless You!
    Minister Glenda/Speaklife1

  24. You are amazing!!!!!!

    Love & Peace Always,
    Sarah

  25. looking forward to getting to know you through your blog! Visiting from http://www.mylifeasanadventure.com

  26. Becky says:

    Thanks for liking my blog post. I love everything you love too especially God. I’ll visit again soon.

  27. Karyl says:

    Thanks for liking my post. Cute blog you have here. What a beautiful picture of you! 🙂

  28. Wa Makeri says:

    I love bargains, food, shoes and God too! And I love your header. 😀 Thanks for stopping by my blog. Keep writing, keep shining.

  29. Hello Nissi, thanks for visiting my blog. I highly appreciate it. Your blog is interesting to hang out every now and then…. I might as well do. See you around dear 🙂

    Dolly

  30. Peadar Ban says:

    God Morning,
    I like the typo, so I will let it stay. I write to thank you for the stop off at my latest little entry, which I have just revised and expanded a bit. It often happens that way. One writes something, sends it off and suddenly has another idea.

    I’ll now take a ramble through your work. May I say you certainly have a nicer nose and ears than mine.
    Peter

  31. Alternativepoet says:

    Thanks for stopping by my place Nissi, glad you liked the poem! 😊

  32. jennw2ns says:

    I appreciate the visit, and thanks for liking the post! So . . . how would YOU answer my question there? 😉

    Keep an eye on London for me, okay?

  33. wherethedaytakesme says:

    Thanks for liking my post.

  34. Klextin says:

    Thank you for reading my blogs, I truly enjoy your candid and honest writings.
    Thank you !

  35. Heey Nissi, Thanks for liking my post. I’ve been nosey and poked around your blog… NIIIIIIIIICCCE!! 🙂 and its a pleasure to “meet” you. ~ Kristi

  36. Thank you for visiting my blog and liking my post.

  37. dearfriends says:

    Hello Nissi,
    Would you consider using your poetry at high school and colleges? Girls/young women need to hear this from someone who speaks as clearly and beautifully as you do. Thanks for stopping by my blog, that’s how I found yours. Here’s to all of our sisters—All my Best, Barb

    1. His Barb. Thanks for dropping by. I definitely want to get involved in school and community work next year. It is the first thing on my agenda.

  38. WOW! I just watched your video.. This is just after watching the movie “A week with Marilyn”…I can’t help but be sad for those little girls who look at self worth through through the lense of our society and what it says is they “should look like” or be like.. He is a Father to the fatherless and close to the the broken hearted.. Great poetry! Keep it up!

    1. Thanks Bill! It is heart breaking to see the way women are almost forced to view themselves. I aim to offer alternatives through my poetry and books. Thanks for dropping by.

  39. Hi, Nissi!

    Thanks for visiting my humor blog and leaving a “like.” I just watched the video. Both your poetry and the video are powerful and beautiful–what you are empowering women to be!

    –John: TheDailyGraff.com

  40. rangewriter says:

    You are one very talented lady!

  41. Annoi7 says:

    Hi, thanx for dropping by and liking my post. I just read few of your posts. You write really nice. keep on visiting. 🙂

  42. I like your idea to use YOUTUBE for poems (and a portrait slide show)
    I’ve sent a link of your post to twitter
    https://twitter.com/#!/frizztext/status/144103742684409856

  43. KatyK says:

    Hi Nissi
    thanks for liking my post. Love yours too!

  44. beckyoinla says:

    Hi Nissi – thank you for the ‘like!’ You have a lovely little spot here!!! Looking forward to reading more!

    Be well!
    -beckyoinla
    labellehibou.com

  45. Ane Ryan Walker / OffRoadRomance says:

    Nissi, loved the poetry production! Very moving. And Thanks for stopping by HerStoryCalls.com. We creative types need to support each other, Ane Ryan Walker

  46. Hi,
    Thanks for stopping by my post and liking it. 🙂
    Your poems are really great… Keep writing!

    Anshul

  47. Team Oyeniyi says:

    Thank you for visiting us! I’m sorry it has taken me a while to drop by in return, but life is a little hectic around our place!

  48. therustychaincyclist says:

    As a blogger newbie, it’s always great to have someone take the time to read something you’ve written and leave a show of appreciation (“like” button). Thanks for visiting.

  49. Thanks Nissi for visiting my blog today! Looks like we have a lot in common!

  50. happiebelle says:

    Thank you for liking my post !! 🙂

  51. Nice poetry. Somehow I loved the poetry more than the plantain I initially came to look for…which I haven’t found yet. Lovely pink-ish blog! lol

    1. Loool thanks! The Plantain soon come 🙂

  52. Joanna Lea says:

    Love your voice and lovely images.

    Joanna

  53. Christine Parrish My Ultimate Life Vision says:

    Hi Nissi,
    You have a simplistic and elegant blog site and a powerful message! Very cool.

  54. Lilly says:

    What a beautiful speaking voice you have, and even more powerful are the words spoken. Absolutely intriguing and inspiring!

  55. rhults1 says:

    Thank you very much for your likes! I am quite new to the blogging world, an dI just hope I am doing this right!

    1. Awww Angry Owls you’ll be fine!

  56. ventamatic says:

    thank you for reading my blog, hugs

  57. bittercharm says:

    Wow girl you are good. Not just your words are powerful, your voice is piercing too..

  58. zevstar says:

    courageous strong poetry…thanks

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  60. bvandergriff says:

    Thanks so much for liking my “Snow” post. Love your take and your wisdom and fervor and passion! 🙂 Can’t wait to read more.

  61. Hello Nissi,

    What a lovely woman you are. Thanks for liking my post. I am delighted to find you and your poetry.

  62. Very nice to meet you Ms Nissi ! Viewed your latest poetry video and it too is awesome. Thanks for liking my post.

  63. scroungelady says:

    Hey Nissi,
    I like the same things you do! Always cook in good shoes!

  64. Really fascinated by your blog, and yes, fried plantain is worth dying for…

  65. Angela says:

    Thanks for liking my post! I love your accent! 😛

  66. bbbinjax says:

    Thank you for taking the time to read the first post on my blog. This is my first attempt to learn how to navigate WordPress. Your poetry video is very well done, and I really like the photo you chose for your header. Follow your dream!

  67. Michael says:

    Hello, Nissi. It’ll be good to keep up with you on the blog. Thanks for launching it.

  68. tonielizabethstyles says:

    Hey Nissi! Thank you so much for the Like. Your blog is really special, I must spend more time exploring it. I’m following you now 🙂

  69. bingpv says:

    Hello from Windy Wellington! Thanks for liking my post, Nissi. Much appreciated. I’m new here and still finding my way around blogosphere. I love your poetry project above … and the photos, too! Will be coming back for sure. : )

    Cheers,
    Bing

  70. akcielo says:

    This is beautiful! You are very talented! 🙂

    What is plantain periodicals?

    1. Thank you. Plantain Periodicals is my blog name. The name stems from my kitchen moments with friends frying plantain and talking about life 🙂

      1. akcielo says:

        Wow 🙂 That sounds like my kind of fun– plantains, kitchen and friends- yep! Great combo if you ask me! Love fried plantains!

  71. literary lew says:

    Thanks for checking my blog out. I’ve read your blog also and you are sweet, witty, and beautiful. Keep it up, especially the beautiful part!

  72. hi, thank you for your “like”, it is great to visit your blog. It feels great here!!

  73. fallcorn1936 says:

    Your poetry is beautiful, a reflection of you

  74. Adam says:

    Im glad u liked my blog! Diggin’ ur work as well. Keep up the great work! 🙂

  75. April says:

    Nice to meet you. Christmas Blessings!

  76. sistergoldnhair says:

    absolutely love your blog! Thank you for the like. Have a fantastic day 🙂

  77. UsneakydevilU says:

    I see you! You embody the concept of “Not letting anyone rob you of your joy”.

    I appreciate your stop by and I’m glad I stopped here. God works!

  78. MzLoveViewz says:

    Hello Nissi, first off your beautiful , the header picture is very welcoming . Thank you for stopping by my blog, just that alone encouraged me. I’m feasting on your post and poetry and I’m mesmerized and inspired . You’re my new bff in my head lol .

  79. Loved your poetry project. Powerful stuff. Where is it written down to read? And it’s okay for me to say this – my wife say’s so – you have the most beautiful smile. 🙂

    1. Awww thank you! I am in the process of publishing a poetry book online and hard copy. I will let you know when it is out 🙂

  80. bonesdiary says:

    Hiya, thanks for visiting and liking my blog. It ain’t easy hitting the right keys when all I’ve got is paws, but a bit of appreciation makes all the effort worth it.
    I love your poem and hope you keep on keeping on.
    Lots of love
    Bones.x

  81. Thanks for stopping by my blog, Nissi. You are doing some really interesting things with your voice, your words, and your presence. Thanks for sharing your power. I think great things must be in store for you.

  82. Karyl says:

    Thanks for liking my post today! 🙂

  83. jojopant says:

    Thanks for dropping by at my blog. Loved the little that I have read of your blog, and am going to make sure I read more of it immediately.
    Best wishes and may you always be blessed. 🙂

  84. maryct70 says:

    You have a lovely, motivational blog here. Thanks for sharing, and thanks for taking the time to stop by my blog!

  85. bustertonya says:

    Hello Nissi,
    Thank you so much for stopping by and liking my post. I love your latest poetry project: Spot on. In your post Do You love Yourself? you stated that love changes us in many different ways. I couldn’t agree more. The lack of love changes us also. I always get sooo happy when I see people using love on themselves so that they can love others.

    1. Thanks Buster Tonya. Love is a great thing and I do not know how people can be so spiteful and try to live without it.

      Nissi x

  86. Nissi, thanks so much for stopping by my blog and liking my post this morning! Glad you did, as it helped me find yours. Lovely header, and I appreciate your courage in putting your poetry out there for the world. Keep it up!

  87. I am loving your twists!!! They are fabulous. Thanks for stopping by my blog; looking forward to reading yours.

  88. Hi there! I’m passing through to let you know that i’ve selected you for the Versatile Blogger Award. You can find out about why I selected you and what you need to do in my link below.

    http://nocturnefirefay.wordpress.com/2011/12/16/1973/

    Congratulations!

  89. Oh, how much I like to hear poets read their own poetry!

  90. Hi, Thanks a lot for checking my blog and liking it. It means a lot to me. You have an amazing blog and I can see your beauty from withing. Keep it up!

  91. zsuiluj says:

    Hi Nissi. Thanks for stopping at my blog & liking my post..
    i really like your blog… keep chillin’ my friend…
    take care always & God bless…

  92. Susan Michaels says:

    Nissi…I believe your blog is adding a lot of light in the world! Please accept the CandleLighters Award…and copy the Award icon to your blog if you like! I will post your site as a nominee for the award on my site under the ‘Awards’ tab (at 5wise.wordpress.com) To pick up your icon(image) and learn more about the nomination, go to: http://womenswindow.com/2012/01/11/candle-lighter-award-nominations/

    God bless!

    1. Thank you so much for this Susan! It is such a blessing and so good to know that people like yourself are enjoying the blog 🙂

  93. Hi Nissi,

    I’ve nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award, so please visit me for more info:
    http://lscotthoughts.com/2012/01/16/another-lovely-versatile-blogger-award.
    Lauren

  94. Be Branded says:

    Nissi, Thank you for taking time to read my blog http://bebranded.wordpress.com/2012/01/23/the-most-hi-tech-group-is-moms/

    I appreciate your “like” button on the article. I have visited your site and find it uplifting and a positive voice. Keep up your work. Best Wishes to you –Tony

  95. Susan Michaels says:

    Who bugs you more about getting a blog award than me? 🙂 But when Kate Kress sent me the 7×7 blog award, I thought this was ‘you’ and am passing it to you to post if you want to…but mostly to say, keep up the great blog and writing! The info on the award is at my blog at: http://5wise.wordpress.com/awards/

    and also at Kate’s blog at:http://believeanyway.wordpress.com/2012/01/24/linking-and-surprised/

  96. Hey! Thanks for the like on my post. Still getting my head around wordpress! I love your blog, such positivity. All the best xxx

  97. Cakes McCain says:

    Hey there.. I finally got around to my awards post, and I nominated you (there are 3 so pick one or all of them!)
    cheers!

  98. sue hudelson says:

    I enjoy reading your entries/thoughts Nissi and thank you for visiting my blog. Rock on!

  99. Writing Lemon says:

    I was blown away as I sat and just listened to your poem. Keep up the great work, and thank you for checking out my blog! I’ll be sure to keep an eye out for yours!

  100. judithatwood says:

    Just beautiful — you tell them, my sister!

  101. So glad you found my blog as now I can follow yours! Beautiful woman with beautiful words… keep inspiring us with your wisdom. God has a reason for each of us.

  102. anilraheja says:

    beautiful blog nissi – God bless & love always…

  103. Imke Rust says:

    Thank you for liking my blog. i will spend some more time to check out yours – what i have seen so far made me curious. Regards from Namibia

  104. coachchinh says:

    Your approach is so unique and inspiring! You are very genuine and it shows. Thank you for liking my blog 🙂

    1. Thank you! My pleasure 🙂

  105. Great site. Love your attitude and posts!

  106. Miles says:

    Hi! I included your blog in my list of Versatile Bloggers 🙂

    http://toastaday.wordpress.com/2012/03/01/versatile-blogger-award-say-my-thank-yous/

    Cheers!

  107. uncommonprincess says:

    Thank you for stopping by to like my post and follow my blog! I will be checking out yours too when I have more time, it looks interesting.

  108. TruMtnAngel says:

    Nissi- You are really awesome yourself! Thanks so much for reading my blog- I am new at this. After reading some of your posts, if you didn’t notice the section on my blog called, “Who’s really driving?”- there is a post in there that I think you would enjoy, relating to our efforts and life’s outcomes. Thanks again- have a blessed day. : )

  109. lorischulz says:

    Hi Nissi,

    Because of your beautiful and inspiring writing and videos, I have given you the “Beautiful Blogger Award.” Please follow this link: http://lorischulz.wordpress.com/2012/04/05/beautiful-blogger-award/

    Blessings to you!
    Lori

    1. Thanks so much Lori! Will defo accept this! Thank you so much!

  110. Thanks for stopping by my blogsite. It’s only been up a short time and it’s nice to be recognized by some serious talent! I’ll have to make it a habit to check in here from time to time.

  111. Lilly Sue says:

    Hey! Thanks for stopping by my blog 🙂

    I enjoyed reading your About and listening to your poetry. Very nice.

  112. Lauree Fletcher says:

    Nissi, looks like not only are you a talented writer and a beautiful daughter of God, you are also an avid reader and an encourager to others! What a blessed combination! I’m looking forward to reading more of your heart!

    Thanks for stopping by ThisPerfectWorld and taking the time to like the post you read. I hope you’ll come back often.

    ~lauree

  113. Hello Nissi
    I just wanted you to know that I nominated you for some awards. I hope you don’t mind. I don’t get to read regularly but I always enjoy the posts that you share. Peace and Blessings
    crustybreadblog.com

  114. Dear Nissi, You are a spiritual being with eclectic tastes, I appreciate your work and I featured the prayer photograph that appears in your blog for today’s Spiritual Journalist post ” Prayer for Connecticut”
    Om Shanti,
    JESUSJAY, The Spiritual Journalist
    http://thespiritualjournalist.blogspot.com/2012/12/prayer-for-connecticut.html

    1. Thanks so much. Anyway U can help spread a bit of light and love is great x

  115. Shareen says:

    Nissi. That was amazing! Just viewed your poetry clip. You’ve got beautiful things coming your way. Keep it up x

  116. Cameron says:

    Hi Nissi! My name is Cam and I have a question about your blog. Thank you! Could you please email me?

    1. Hi Cam, please feel free to post the question below and I will get back to you. Otherwise email me on: http://www.nissimutale.co.uk

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